Five Nonfiction Dog Books I Love

[originally posted November 28, 2009]

After yesterday’s shameless self-promotion post for Am I Boring My Dog, I thought it only fair to talk about some of the books that influenced, inspired, or otherwise gave me great reading pleasure while I was doing my research. Full disclosure: I started putting this list together for Flashlight Worthy Books — a great site that recommends books in a wide range of interesting, often quirky, categories — but never managed to finish it. Today, trying to think of a topic to write about, I came across it and decided that all’s fair in love and blogging.

Bones Would Rain From the SkyBones Would Rain from the Sky, by Susanne Clothier

This book was among the first to open my eyes to the philosophy of positive training, making clear the advantage of communicating with dogs rather than shocking, choking, or faux-drowning them through a series of riveting personal examples. Clothier is a dream of a writer, making this book as memorable for its prose as it for its moral compass.

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Tell Me Where It HurtsTell Me Where It Hurts, by Dr. Nick Trout

Compressing a series of visits to an ER at Boston’s Angell Animal Medical Center into a single day, veterinary surgeon Nick Trout packs his narrative with details about the current state of veterinary science and practice while also conveying, with humor and compassion, the deep love that many owners have for their charges. Not all of the humans Trout describes come off very well, but the dogs always acquit themselves admirably.

The Dog WhoLoved Too MuchThe Dog Who Loved Too Much, by Dr. Nicholas Dodman

These fascinating case studies of dogs who exhibit aberrant behaviors would be a guilty pleasure — thank heavens my dog doesn’t do that you think — except that they are written by one of the world’s foremost veterinary behaviorists (think Oliver Sachs for dogs). Dr. Dodman’s latest book, The Well Adjusted Dog, gives more practical advice on how to live with dogs, but these early case studies were groundbreaking in promoting the notion that dogs sometimes need medication to supplement more conventional behavioral therapy.

41GW5G77T5L._BO2,204,203,200_PIsitb-sticker-arrow-click,TopRight,35,-76_AA240_SH20_OU01_The Dogs Who Found Me, by Ken Foster

Anyone who doubts the unfairness of breed (specifically, pit bull) stereotyping or who doubts that rescuers are themselves are a breed apart should read this book. With a backdrop of the disasters of 9/11 and Katrina, as well as the author’s own heart condition, the stories that Foster tells are get-out-your-hankies heart wrenching while simultaneously unsentimental. Just get on with the job of rescue, Foster seems to say. You’ll be rewarded exponentially.

Clara the pugClara the Pug Who Ruled My Life, by Margo Kaufman

The human Boswell to a canine Samuel Johnson, Kaufman brings this personality plus breed to life with the story of the charismatic Clara (don’t tell him, but before I adopted Frankie, I’d always wanted a pug). The book bogs down when the author veers from Clara into the story of adopting a baby from China, but when the pug is on the page the book sparkles with wit and, well, supreme pugness. The book begins with the passing of Clara, and I was saddened to learn that the author had died of cancer. We’ve lost a terrific chronicler of doggie ways.

Do you agree? Have other favorites to recommend? Please let me know.

Update, December 6:
I’m afraid all the comments sent in were a casualty of the failed blog migration. But I would love for anyone who already submitted their picks — that means you Pat, Barrie, and Natalie — to re-send. And I welcome all new comments. Which books would you most like to re-read or buy as gifts for dog-loving friends?

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Rabbiting around

My mother always told me to keep a low profile, not to put myself forward. (Why she believed that is a whole other story that I won’t go into here. Like my blog subtitle says, this is a “guilt free zone.”) That might be good advice for social occasions — everyone loves a good listener — but it really doesn’t cut it when it comes to selling books.

Yesterday I rationalized that a review from the point of view of a dog was too clever not to share. Today, I have the excuse that this stellar write up comes from Phyllis O’Beollain, a woman who diapers her special needs rabbit (okay, so I’m not above pushing those guilt buttons) in addition to being the Small Pets Examiner in Dayton, Ohio.

Rabbit bookends

Rabbit bookends

Among the things she says about AM I BORING MY DOG:

The author, Edie Jarolim, is now my idol. She achieves what I strive for – sharing practical information and education in a humorous fashion. Having earned her Ph.D. in English literature from New York University, Ms. Jarolim felt she was finally qualified to be a dog owner.

This is a book for everyone. If you have a dog, this is the book for you. If you have ever seen a dog, this is the book for you, if only for the humor. If you are busy beyond all reason, as I am, this book is divided into small quick-read segments, each numbered for easy reference.

A pet psychic once told me that I was Frankie’s goddess, but no human ever claimed me as her idol. I would like to say I’m embarrassed but, hell, if I can’t have wealth, I’ll take adulation.

Thank you, Phyllis. You are now my favorite Examiner.

To read the rest of the review, click here.

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Will My Dog Hate Me for Fostering?

Before Frankie came to live with me, he spent a good deal of time in the care of my friend Rebecca, who rescued and fostered him. As I’ve described in the introduction to my new book, AM I BORING MY DOG, she won the affections of the shy guy — to the point that he didn’t want to leave her. But that’s another story, one with a happy ending — if you consider having a nine pound alien take over your life a happy ending.

Today’s story also is about fostering, and it was written by Kyla Duffy who writes the Bill Blog and is co-publisher of  “Lost Souls: Found!” book series.  I love the fact that the book series lets people know that rescuing dogs and wanting a particular breed are not mutually exclusive — and that sales of the books help fund rescue groups.

In answer to the blog post title question, which she provided, Kyla writes:

No, your dog will not hate you for fostering –  so long as your pup likes other dogs sitting on his head and taking his toys. At least, that’s what always seems to happen to my Boston Terrier, Bill, who started out as a foster dog but quickly became my foster failure… He never found his new family because I decided he was already home.

Bill being sat on by Odie

Bill being sat on by Odie

I’m a foster mom with MidAmerica Boston Terrier Rescue. Edie graciously gave me the opportunity to guest post today, and since fostering is something many people have asked me about, I thought it might be a good topic to cover here.

Foster failure is a common phenomenon with fosters, as it’s inevitable that a dog will come by who just touches your heart. But out of the 15 dogs I have fostered, I’ve only “failed” on one (I’d say that’s a pretty good rate). People always ask me how I don’t get too attached, and the truth is that sometimes I do. However, there are a few things that make the dogs easy to give up.

  • First, I get to choose their family. I’m usually sent several applications to choose from, and after interviewing the interested parties, I get to decide who is the best fit for my dog. Knowing that I selected the family helps give me confidence that my beloved foster is going to a good home.
  • Second, I appreciate the time that Bill and I get to spend together. Bill was a puppy mill breeder. It’s a long story, but after being adopted, returned, and then lost in the woods for three weeks, Bill came into my care. His rehabilitation (psychological and physical) was a loooonnng road, and through it we became very close. These days, I can truly say he’s my best friend, and there’s no one I would rather go hiking with. Having fosters around is fun, but when they go to their new families, Bill and I get to return to our old routine, which we love.
  • Third, let’s face it – fosters can be difficult. They take a lot of time, patience, and understanding. We’ve fostered dogs with the following issues: mange, eye wounds, gastrointestinal disease, aggression, barking, biting, puncture wounds, insomnia, marking, emaciation… the list goes on. We’ve also helped perfect ones who simply needed a new place to live. Either way, there is always an adjustment period as the dog gets used to our home, which can be trying. This might sound bad, but by focusing on their more “challenging” attributes, I can easily let them go. The important thing is that their new families don’t see things that way.
More evidence of Bill not minding other fosters (that's Camille with him)!

More evidence of Bill not minding other fosters (that's Camille with him)!

Have you thought about fostering? I highly recommend it if you don’t think you’ll be overwhelmed by obligations and your family (including your animals) is on board. Bill doesn’t mind dogs sitting on his head. In fact, he likes the company, and I think he sees the hassle as a small price to pay. As for my cats, one could care less, and the other enjoys the entertainment of swatting at everything that walks by. My husband is supportive because he knows how important fostering is to me.

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What is dog training & why do it?

Frankie doesn’t know it yet, but we’re about set out on a new adventure together: Training. And yes, this idea was inspired by his last adventure, being the star of a series of promotional videos for Am I Boring My Dog.

It’s not so much that I minded crouching down behind a table with my hands placed on my dog’s butt.

The raincoat hides the butt holding

The raincoat hides the butt holding

It’s a cute butt, and I’m reasonably limber, what with taking yoga and all. It’s just that I figure there’s got to be a better way than physical intervention, gentle or not, to get a small pup to lounge quietly in a dog bed.

But that’s just the immediate impetus for something I’ve been wanting to do for a long time. Since I’m a big advocate of training, I figure it’s time to put my money — and my energies — where my mouth is.

This led me to contemplate the definition of dog training. Ask ten people and you’re likely to get ten different answers. I can only tell you what it is — and isn’t — for me and for the trainers I respect.

What it’s not: Domination, rote instruction, or even, in many cases, problem solving.

What it is: Communication, leadership — and fun.

Why train if not to bend a pup to your will or change a behavior that doesn’t bother you?

To keep your dog alive

You may think your dog would never run out into traffic– until she does, at which point it’s too late to wish you’d trained her to respond immediately to a recall. And if your dog bites a stranger or two, no matter what the provocation, there’s a strong possibility she’ll have to be euthanized. Training may not reverse your dog’s impulse to chomp down when frightened, but it can help you read the warning signs and to keep her out of potentially dangerous situations.

To keep the lines of communication open

Good training has nothing to do with blind obedience or turning your pooch into an automaton. Rather, its goal is to let your dog know what you expect from her so she can behave accordingly. And vice versa. The better you understand each others’ signals, the less frustrated with each other you’ll be, and the deeper, and the more deeply rewarding, your relationship.

To keep your friends

Just because your dog’s eating habits don’t disturb you, others won’t necessarily appreciate your pup jumping up on the table and grazing from their plates at dinner parties. (Of course, depending on your cooking skills, she may be appreciated under the table, performing the classic function of dispatching unsuccessful culinary efforts.)

To keep yourself and your dog from being bored

Ongoing training is a great way for both you and your dog to stay alert and connected, and for the two of you to spend quality time together.

To keep others in awe

Most people, even those who like dogs, don’t realize the reach of canine capabilities, so it’s easy to impress them with pretty much anything beyond the basics of “sit” and “stay” and “down.” Don’t think of skill demonstrations as parlor tricks but, rather, as payback for the endless displays of toddler  abilities you’ve had to endure. If your dog turns out to be more impressive than your friends’ toddlers, all the better (as long as you refrain from gloating).

Adapted from AM I BORING MY DOG?

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Frankie speaks!

My friend Karyn, greyhound rescuer, foodie, and generally fun person, asked me if she could interview Frankie because he is the inspiration for my new book, Am I Boring My Dog (and because I suspect she often prefers speaking to dogs over speaking to humans). I usually try to shield him from publicity — see my September 3 post — but Karyn’s Greyhound Injury Fund site is the perfect place for any pup to find his voice. Here are  her two particular pals, the late, great Painter (who is in my book) and diva dog Lily.

Painter, celebrating his 12th birthday

Painter, celebrating his 12th birthday

Carmen Mirandog, photo by Diana Hansen

Carmen Mirandog, photo by Diana Hansen

And here’s an excerpt from Frankie’s interview:

KZ: Please tell me a little bit about your life before you came to Edie Jarolim’s house.

Frankie: I don’t like to talk about that. It’s hard to imagine how the people I was with could have abandoned me after I spent five years with them. I’m adorable — let’s face it — and housebroken. Not to mention extremely bright. What could I possibly have done so wrong as to make my people leave me to fend for myself on the streets of Tucson?

For the rest, go to Inspirations: Am I Boring My Dog? Book

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And the contest winners are … Part 2

Am I Boring My Dog books onlyAnd the prizes continue. It turns out that I had two more small-group winners, i.e., entrants who might have won for more than one title:

Jo (a.k.a Wigglebums), who had three titles that I particularly liked:

Go Poop Up on the Mountain by James Baldhound

Catch! 22 Times!! by Joseph Holler

A Good Bone is Hard to Find, by Flannery O’Cavalier

Karyn Zoldan, who won for

A Tail of Two Shih-Tzus by Charles What-the-Dickens

Gone with the Wee Wee by Margaret Itchell

The Gassy-stronomical Me by M.F. K-9 Fisher (a bit obscure, I know, but irresistible to a foodie).

Between these two and the three group winners mentioned in the last post, that’s a total of five.

Now here’s the good news and the bad news. I just can’t decide on the final two (or even five). So I’m opening it up to you, in a poll. You can vote for yourself if you’re listed here, but the poll is set up so you can only make three selections from any one computer. I don’t have books to send out yet anyway. And I really need to get some work done.

To that end, I’m setting a deadline: A week from the contest’s start: Wednesday, September 9.

Which Book Would Most Bore a Dog?

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And the contest winners are…. Part 1

Am I Boring My Dog books only As I’ve mentioned several times, the quality — and quantity — of the entries to the What Books Would Bore Your Dog? contest went beyond my expectations. As a result, I was able to stick to my original dictate. That is, I gave priority to submissions that included a play on both book title and author’s name because there were so many entries that qualified. Recognizability was a key factor too; though some of the more obscure titles gave me a chuckle, I tended to choose books that the average educated person who read the “classics” in high school and college or who reads popular bestsellers would be likely to recognize.

And, remember, my rule was to award only one book per person (or, in one case, per family). The result was the elimination of a great many worthy contenders.

So, without further ado…

Marcia Taylor submitted 59 — count ‘em! — book titles. The range of her entries, from classics to contemporary, prose to poetry, was vast, and a great many titles were outstanding. I’m going to list only my top ten favorites (doubling up on multiple books by the same author); you can check out the rest on the comments section of the contest.

A Farewell to Paws /The Old Dog and the Flea, by Ernest Hemingwoof

Bury It Where It Lays/ Slouching Towards Veterinarian, by Joan Piddle-on

Boneo & Chewliette/Hambone by William Barkspeare

Look Boneward, Angel, by Thomas Woof

Peeing and Nothingness, by Jean Paul Barke

Catipus Rex, by Dogocles

Because I Could Not Stop to Poop by Emily Bit-your-son

Linda Tagliaferro, Fred Thorner, and another relative who wishes to remain anonymous. This wife and husband team and the nameless person they’re related to submitted a total of 43 entries — and also submitted the best trivia fact related to one of the titles, which I will mention here. Again, because the number and quality were so great, I’m shortening my list of favorites.

(I Like to Watch the) Rabbit Run, by John Pupdike

Chairman Meow’s Little Red Book

Dog Day’s Journey Into Bite by Eugene O’Heel

Love in the Time of Distemper, by Gabriel Garcia Barquez

Of Mutts and Mastiffs, by John Steinbark

Pup from Slavery: An Autobiography of Booker T-Bone Washington (here Linda pointed out that the “T” in Booker T. Washington stands for Taliaferro — a distant family link?)

The Picture of Doberman Grey by Os-cur Wilde

The Scarlet Setter by Nathaniel Pawthorne

Valerie Wood wins for her two author series, which I will replicate in their entirety.

Among the most famous works of Ima Flanders are:

Dr.No…NO! NO!! (my favorite)

You Only Bark Twice

Cod-dinner

Octopussies!

The Dog with the Golden Bun

Dogbones are Forever

Waterball

Liver and Let Die

From Husky with Love

Moonrover

The Sharpei Who Loved Me

And the famous Beagle sisters produced:

Woofering Heights, by Emily Jane Beagle

Jane Airedale, by Charlotte Beagle

Agnes Greyhound by Anne Beagle

The Terrier of Wildcat Hall by Anne Beagle

Ok, those are the group winners — congratulations! Please contact me and let me know to what address you would like the book sent. On to the even more difficult task of choosing individual winners…

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Am I Boring My Dog: The Final Video

Frankie was very antsy last night, roaming around the house and pacing. He even curled up and slept on my stomach for comfort — an unprecedented move. Clearly he was having a bad case of nerves. But it’s here at last, Am I Boring My Dog? and the final video trailer. I think the videographers, Open Lense Productions, did a bang up job. And, no question, Frankie is a star!

Tell me what you think. I’m old enough to remember how pissed off people were when a similar trick was pulled on Dallas — you know, when Bobby Ewing came out of the shower. Do you feel had by the idea that Frankie didn’t actually travel to all those places? Disturbed by the notion that I may indeed be boring him? All comments welcome.

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Am I Boring My Dog contest: Some teaser stats

Am I Boring My Dog books onlyYes, the book contest is over and I’m going through the list of submissions. I won’t announce the winners until tomorrow, but I’ve done some preliminary sorting and have come up with the following interesting (at least to me) information:

Total number of entries: 219

Greatest number of entries from one person: 59 (others will be glad to learn that this person is eligible to win only one book so those titles have been separated out from the others)

Most popular author to riff on: Charles Dickens (Charles Kittens, Charles What the Dickens, King Charles Spaniel Dickens, Charles Lick’ems). I’m not counting the oeuvres of Ima Flanders (Ian Fleming) and Jingles (a.k.a. Jane) Austen, submitted by individuals.

Most popular title to riff on: Love in the Time of Cholera by Gabriel Garcia Marquez  (Love in the Time of Cats and Dogs, Love in the Time of Distemper by Gabriel Garcia Barkquez, Love in the Time of Dog Collars by Gabriel Garcia Muttquez)

Five most popular topics in book titles: Bones, poo, pee, barking (woofing/rruffing, etc.), and wolves.

Revision: Cats are more popular than wolves in the book titles. I must have blocked that.

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The best medicine

One of my favorite books about animals is Tell Me Where It Hurts, by Dr. Nick Trout. Compressing a great many cases into one day of veterinary ER drama, Dr. Trout’s book is not only passionate, well written, and poignant but it explores our central frustration when dealing with illness in animals: They can’t express themselves.

Tell Me Where It Hurts

I’ve been thinking a lot about that book today because Frankie is in a veterinary hospital, being prodded and poked and hooked up to IVs. He got himself there by vomiting voraciously (on my rugs and in my bed, where else?) and pooping prodigiously (happily, in my backyard).

This is worrying under the best of circumstances, but when diabetes is involved it becomes even more complicated: You have to balance the need for insulin with the need not to cause hypoglycemia by giving shots on an empty stomach.

Then there are the pancreatitis, liver problems, urinary tract infections… all conditions associated with diabetes, all rather worrying.

But until I get medical answers — which won’t be until tomorrow morning at the earliest — I’ve decided I like the suggestions that several of my friends on Facebook made about the causes of Frankie’s disease:

  • That he is nervous about the imminent publication of my book. My nervousness tends to manifest in overeating rather than in vomiting and diarrhea but sympathy symptoms do not have to be identical.
  • That he is suffering from air sickness as a result of all that hot air balloon travel. Given his latest venture, into the oxygen-deprived atmosphere of outer space, I don’t think that’s an unreasonable hypothesis.

The entries that people have been sending in to my Win A Copy of Am I Boring My Dog contest have also been restorative — to me, if not to Frankie. So keep ‘em coming.

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