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Best. Gift. Ever.

frankie-01-1I got a wonderful surprise in the mail on Saturday: the portrait of Frankie pictured here, created by AJ Emm. I originally e-met the artist when she was AJ McDowell and blogged at PupLove.

Of course I immediately burst into tears.

Because it was a picture of Frankie. Because it captured him so wonderfully. And because it was such an amazingly nice thing for someone I barely know to do.

I never cease to be blown away at the kindness and supportiveness of the pet-lovers’ community.

The backstory

Since I believe in looking a gift pet portrait in the mouth, after thanking AJ, I asked her a bunch of questions.

To wit:

Q: Can you tell me a bit about your process?

When I start on a new illustration, I like to gather as many photos of the pet as possible to work from.  My goal is to really try to portray each pet’s unique characteristics as much as possible, so before I even start drawing, I spend some time just looking through the photos to look for special markings, repeating expressions, or anything that feels important to that animal.

I start sketching directly in Illustrator and add in some basic shapes for shading, then I’ll send the sketch over for feedback and make edits as necessarily.  Once I get approval on the sketch, I add colour layer by layer.  Special requests happen at this stage – certain collars, favourite toys, specific background colours, etc. – and when everything is done, I send the finished drawing off to be printed and prepare a high-resolution digital file for online use.

Q: Was there one image of Frankie that inspired you? I can’t think of any photograph that looks quite like that.

I used a few references. I watched your “Am I Boring My Dog” video so many times that I lost count, and there was a photo of Frankie that I drew *really* heavily from because it was so perfect… He was standing in the sand outside of an RV or a bus, I think… I just remember thinking “he looks so happy, I have to use this.”

[This turned out to be a picture of Frankie with Rod and Amy Burkert of when they visited Tucson in May 2011, below. By strange coincidence, they just visited again — and were the first to see the image that AJ created of Frankie at my house. Cue: “Twilight Zone” music.]

Rod, Amy and Frankie

Back to AJ:

Jodi, from Kol’s Notes, was really helpful, too. I kept sending her screenshots as I was working, and she’d send back things like: “Hmm… make his mouth a little wider”, or “He looks a little too dark – can you lighten up <insert spot here>, and so forth. Normally I’d get that feedback from the pet owner, but I needed a substitute in this case, and she did a great job.

What’s in it for you?

So now that you are totally awed by the awesomeness of the pet portrait and of AJ, I have some good news. AJ has agreed to offer a 20% discount on her portraits at AJ Emm if you use the promotional code FRANKIE.

There is no expiration date for using the code, but if you want a portrait in time for Christmas, you’ll have to to order by December 1.

Just so you know. AJ did not, I repeat, not, ask me to spread the word about her work. Quite the contrary. When I told her I was doing a post and asked her about using some of the answers she gave to my questions on Facebook, she wrote:

You’re absolutely welcome to use our conversation, and anything else you need – but please, I hope you don’t feel obligated to do a blog post!

You were the first person to make me feel like I was part of the “dog blogging community” after I started PupLove. Yours was the first blog that I did a guest post for. I think you’re fantastic and I just wanted to give you something during a difficult time.

I often talk about karma biting you in the butt when you behave badly, but I forget that it can work in positive ways too.  You never know when something you do and don’t even remember will come back and give you a warm puppy kiss in the face.

Thanks again, AJ.

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  1. Posted November 18, 2013 at 5:00 am | Permalink

    I am just blown away. Wow!

  2. Posted November 18, 2013 at 7:37 am | Permalink


  3. Posted November 18, 2013 at 8:15 am | Permalink

    Wow! Is right. She really captured him.

  4. Posted November 18, 2013 at 9:14 am | Permalink

    I love that drawing! She really captured his spirit and it’s uplifting to look at.

  5. Posted November 18, 2013 at 9:18 am | Permalink

    Her portraits are so full of personality, instead of just the standard “posed portrait” look. Yep, Frankie gets immortality with this capture!

  6. Posted November 18, 2013 at 9:41 am | Permalink

    Wonderful! What a splendid portrait!
    I love how things keep working out. And that’s just the greatest little picture! I’ve bookmarked A.J.’s site; maybe we’ll get a portrait, too.
    Happy-smiling for you, Edie.

  7. Posted November 18, 2013 at 10:28 am | Permalink

    Awwww, Edie! I’m blushing!

    • Edie Jarolim
      Posted November 18, 2013 at 10:29 am | Permalink

      You should be kvelling 😉

  8. Posted November 18, 2013 at 11:01 am | Permalink

    What a wonderful gift, and what a truly kind thing to do! People in the pet world can be so amazing.

    How weird that Amy and Rod arrived when the artwork did… 🙂

  9. Posted November 18, 2013 at 11:54 am | Permalink

    Love, love, LOVE it! It’s such a perfect image of Frankie!

  10. Posted November 18, 2013 at 1:14 pm | Permalink

    Heartbreakingly beautiful. Brings tears to my eyes…

  11. Clare
    Posted November 18, 2013 at 2:08 pm | Permalink

    Best of all, she caught the Elvis sneer perfectly!

  12. Vlad & Barkly's Dee
    Posted November 18, 2013 at 5:38 pm | Permalink

    That is an absolutely wonderful, memorial gift. One of the best I’ve ever seen. She’s captured that terrier spirit to a T, and that’s often hard to impart visually.

    So this is the 18th day. Have you found any moment in your life, yet, where you can actually breathe? Or is it all still that gasping for air thing because you see him everywhere? We keep on hoping every day that you find just one good breath that doesn’t hurt to take, and we’re sending our best healing thoughts out to you.

    • Edie Jarolim
      Posted November 18, 2013 at 7:46 pm | Permalink

      Aw, thanks for asking. I’ve found several moments — as I wrote the other day, I mostly look for him in my bed, which would suggest he slept a lot in the final weeks. He wasn’t the old Frankie I would have missed desparately. It’s tough, tough, tough — but I think that, because I had a lot of time to prepare, the shock wasn’t there as it is for many people.

  13. Posted November 18, 2013 at 7:37 pm | Permalink

    All it took was seeing the likeness of Frankie at the top of your blog and I got all teary-eyed. I’ve never met Frankie and I was shocked at the resemblance. AJ has a very big heart. I am so glad you shared her gift and her talent with us. I will be sharing your post because I think many would love to have a print as good as the one she did of Frankie.

    What a wonderful gift.

  14. Posted November 19, 2013 at 6:10 am | Permalink

    I love the way AJ captured the quirky look from Frankie’s photo with Rod and Amy.

    Do you see what a big impact you and Frankie have had on the people around you?

  15. Posted November 19, 2013 at 7:17 am | Permalink

    What a wonderful gift – I love how it captures that mischievous Frankie look.

    AJ is truly talented and amazing.

  16. Cynthia
    Posted November 19, 2013 at 7:22 am | Permalink

    Simply beautiful, and so very kind of AJ to create a portrait of Frankie for you. *Waterworks Time*

  17. Posted November 21, 2013 at 5:14 am | Permalink

    It seems we were somehow cosmically linked!

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